My husband wants anal sex

Finally, is it really possible for me to experience pleasure this way? Several of my girlfriends have done it and none of them list it as their favorite thing. I need both practical and emotional advice. He Said: I think this question calls for a good bullet point how-to-guide, from the practical to the philosophical: Make sure you use plenty of lube, perhaps twice what you would normally apply to vaginal sex. If you are not using condoms, which will make the experience much more pleasurable, make sure you both get tested for all STDs, including HIV, and have been monogamous for several months—since you are engaged, this shouldn't be a problem.

I friend is having a serious problem. Please respond in detail. The issue is she is getting married in few days and her husband-to-be has given her hints that he is interested in having sex with her in an unnatural way from behind. Kindly advise how she can dissuade him from this.

Silent Beads. I dated my husband for three years before we got married. Every couple goes through sweet and sour sex every now and then.

I read your articles all the time and I have a question. You say that marriages benefit from conversing about sex, but what if your partner discredits your opinion. My partner has an anal fetish. And, because I love him, I tried it because he asked me to. I expressed this to him and his reaction was unexpected.