Society is good at visually appreciating butts and writing catchy songs about butts, but still not so great at understanding how we might derive physical pleasure from our own butts—especially when it comes to the prostate. With that in mind, I asked Lewis and sex and relationships advisor Lianne Young to give some tips on how you can give your partner a prostate orgasm. Medically speaking, the prostate produces a fluid that mixes with sperm to create semen. So if you stimulate the prostate gland, it kind of speeds up that process and makes it more pleasurable.
Prostate massage or anal pleasure during solo and shared play can be pleasurable for anyone, regardless of their gender identity or sexual orientation. This is because the anus is an area of our bodies that's packed with nerve endings and is highly receptive to touch. Anal stimulation has the potential to feel great for anyone with a butthole, but for men and people with a prostate, anal exploration through prostate massage and prostate milking can be especially pleasurable. Yes, it does also feel good for women and vagina-havers. The prostate sometimes called the P-spot or "the male G-spot" is a gland within the sexual organs of a man or someone with a penis.
If it feels good, anything goes! Cisgender men and people assigned male at birth have a prostate , so in these cases a butt orgasm results from stimulating the prostate. You can stimulate the P-spot through the perineum, which is the runway of skin between the balls and the anus.
Women and men are often afraid of receiving anal or rectal massage because of the stigma of this area, or because of trauma linked to previous sexual experiences. However, it can be a pleasant experience if it is done properly. The general preparation procedure and muscle release is almost the same for men and women, except that men have a prostate.